The Care and Feeding of Preteens The Preteen Alliance and Kaiser Permanente Redwood City will co-sponsor this luncheon to discuss how to help preteens eat well, keep fit, and have a positive self-image. Thursday, May 1, in Redwood City.
Monday 03.17.08 March 3 Luncheon Addresses Alcohol Use Among Preteens
The message at a Preteen Alliance luncheon held March 3 was clear -- start talking
before kids start drinking.
The luncheon speakers, David Mineta, deputy director of Asian American Recovery
Services, and Mary Bier, coordinator of the Partnership for a Safe and Healthy
Pacifica, discussed a tragic alcohol-related accident that prompted Pacifica
to organize a community-wide effort to prevent substance abuse among youth.
The Partnership was formed shortly after the deaths of 19-year-old Jonny Bier,
Mary's nephew, and 16-year-old Stephanie Echeverri, who were in an alcohol-related
car accident. David and Mary have made it a priority to encourage local families
to help children understand the consequences of alcohol use. The speakers stressed
that adults can help a child develop a healthy lifestyle and prevent alcohol
use by focusing on the 40 developmental
assets identified by the Search Institute.
Specifically for preteens, these assets include:
Positive communication between parent and child
Supportive relationships with other adults that are not a part of the family
Clear and consistent rules and consequences within the family
The Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health also presented some data
from kidsdata.org to illustrate the rates of teen drinking and drug use locally.
These data include:
In 2006, 43 percent of public school students in grades 7, 9, and 11 in
San Mateo County and 38 percent in Santa Clara County said they have tried
alcohol at least once in their lifetime. See
the data>>
Also according to 2006 data, the percentage of students who reported having
used alcohol, inhalants, marijuana or other drugs in the past month increased
from seventh to 11th grade. See
the data>>
In the Bay Area, 92 percent of parents said they are not at all concerned
that their child is engaging in alcohol use, according to a 2006 poll of parents.
See
the data>>
More than 70 people attended the luncheon at the Redwood City library and many
noted their desire to learn more about how to talk to preteens to prevent alcohol
use. A list of tips and resources is available in our discussion forums. Also,
leave a comment if you have suggestions for how parents and service providers
can talk to preteens about this important topic.
Our Last Column Sarah Kremer from Friends for Youth
reminded us that anyone can be a mentoring, and you don't
have to be a part of a formal mentoring program to make a
difference. Read
Sarah's column here>>
Past
Perspectives Read all of our previous columns in
the blog
archive. Topics include: stress, communication, helping
preteens become independent, immunizations, parenting, and
more.